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If you want to avoid making the same mistakes your parents made, if you know there is a better way of parenting than the one you have been exposed to, if you want to be a better parent. or if you want to parent with compassion and understanding.
Really good info for parents concerned with giving their kids the best of their parenting abilities. Very interesting. Kind of a technical read in some spots.
Until you can understand yourself better, all of the good intentions in the world will just crash down, leaving you feeling like a failure. This book helped me gain enormous insight into myself and also create a compassionate space in which to parent. It is not an easy read, but it is important and well worth the effort. I am so grateful that this book found me. I've read some beautiful parenting books, but what many of them lack is what this book presents so beautifully.
Unresolved issues from childhood may reduce the quality of the parent child relationship. Parental ambivalence is approached with sensitivity and guidance is provided regarding how to identify and heal negative patterns. Parenting from the Inside Out is an easy-to-read book on the neurobiology of parenting. I highly recommend this book for parents who wish to deepen their relationships with their children and enhance the quality of their lives together. Experiences and memory shape emerging neural connections; essentially parents sculpt the minds of their children. Specific psychological concepts are introduced and clearly explained.Siegel's openness in regard to his experience as a parent is courageous and serves to normalize the inevitable fact that parents are imperfect. Parents can grow together with their children, enjoying them for who they are.
It builds upon the attachment theory of child development and contains useful exercises that are aimed at helping readers identify and work with psychological issues related to parenting.The core theme of this book is that when parents cultivate a strong, healthy relationship with their children, it promotes development in areas of the brain enabling emotional, cognitive, and interpersonal skills. Through deepening self-awareness and processing past issues in order to give meaning to them, parents can change ingrained patterns and help their children thrive. This book is also very useful for anyone working with children. Children in turn can become grounded in reality and more self-assured.
Parenting From the Inside Out, is an excellent resource.This book was highly recommended to me, by a psychologist and family therapist. It gives wonderful instructions for parents, on how to be emotionally "present" with our children.It also is very informational about brain/mind development. It reveals how we as parents can gain insight, into how our own childhood and past significant family relationships have an enormous impact on how we will relate to and share experiences with our children.
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